About this guide
Your identity, language, disclosure choices, orientation, relationship style, and pace are yours to define. This guide offers practical ways to make dating feel more intentional while protecting your privacy and honoring what feels safe for you.
For transgender adults 18+, including trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people with varied orientations and dating goals. Explore identity and disclosure choices, profile and privacy decisions, boundaries, communication, and safety. Your language and pace are yours to choose.
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Read one section at a time, at a pace that works for you. Exercises are optional and private: skip, adapt, or pause an activity, then return when you’re ready. To find another topic, explore the full guide collection.
Who it’s for
Trans women, trans men, nonbinary people, and other transgender adults with varied dating goals and experience.
What the guide covers
- Clarify what you want from dating and what confidence means to you
- Choose how and when to share personal information
- Build profiles and conversations that reflect your boundaries
- Screen for respectful, affirming matches and notice fetishizing behavior
- Plan safer first dates and protect your privacy
- Communicate about body boundaries, intimacy, and compatibility
How to use it
The guide is designed for flexible, self-paced learning. Use the topics and reflection activities that fit your situation, skip anything that does not, and return as your goals change. The guide is educational and is not therapy or a promise of a particular relationship outcome.
Browse all guides. One guide is $50 without email support or $70 with substantive email support. Checkout and appointment scheduling are not open yet.
What you’ll practice
- Choose what, when, and how much to disclose while protecting your privacy.
- Screen for affirming matches and recognize respectful versus fetishizing behavior.
- Plan safer dates and communicate boundaries around your body and intimacy.
Choose how to use this guide
Guide only: The guide is a practical first step for self-improvement and personal growth. It offers knowledge and exercises on its topic—such as profile creation, dating choices, communication, and relationships—for you to use at your own pace. No consultation is included.
Guide + consultation ($150): Pair this guide with one 50-minute phone or scheduled text session. Work with your coach on creating or improving your dating profile, or any other dating question, such as messages, conversation practice, or dating strategy. This is one consultation, not ongoing coaching.
Consultation only ($75): One 50-minute phone or scheduled text session to help create or improve your dating profile, or work through any other dating question. No guide is included.
Each self-study guide is $50 without email support or $70 with substantive email support about its material. Email replies help you understand and work through the purchased guide; this is not ongoing coaching. Digital guide purchases are non-refundable except where required by law. Checkout and appointment scheduling are not open yet. Guide + Consultation is $150 and includes one guide with email support plus one 50-minute session. A standalone 50-minute consultation is $75. See consulting package details.
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